Andrew: I am praying for a win-win solution

Dear Andrew,

I am writing to you you here in hope that you are able to access the Internet where ever you may be in the world and that you might read this blog.

I always believe in win-win solutions.

Right now Andrew, you are in a lose-lose-lose situation.  When Mia got custody and the move away order then that was a lose-win-lose situation.

Let me explain.  When Mia got custody it was a “win” for her considering she would be able to go back home to her country, however it was loss for you because you wold not be able to see your son Thor very often.  I also believe it was a loss for Thor as he would not be able to see his father very often, and I believe that fathers should be a part of their childs life.  Win-lose-lose!

Now let me explain what I mean by lose-lose-lose.  Right now Mia has a loss, because she is facing having to live without ever seeing her son (and as a mother my self, that is a really BIG loss).  You are also at a loss in this situation because you have had to give up your life, your family, and your friends for a life on the run.

But the biggest loss of all is Thor’s, the innocent little boy in this whole mess.  The boy who never asked to be in the middle of a situation like this.  A little boy who I am sure loves his dad, because that is what babies do.  A little boy who at this stage of his life is in critical need of his mother.  What kind of childhood will he have not knowing his mother?  What kind of father will you be able to be for him when you always have to be scared of being caught?  What will you tell him when he gets old enough to ask for his mother?  Will you tell him the truth?  One day Thor will find out regardless.  And you don’t want to be that person who deprived him of having a mother.  Your son might one day hate you for that.  As a parent myself, I realize that you might have left with Thor in the heat of the moment, but that in your heart, you really wants what is best for your son; even at the cost of your own happiness (at least that is how I feel as a mother).

So now the good news!  Let me explain what needs to happen to turn this situation to a win-win-win.

I am sure if you bring Thor back, Mia would be willing to renegotiate her moving to Sweden, I am sure she would be willing to live anywhere, even on the moon, if it meant she would be able to have her son back.  So that would be a win for Mia.  It would be a win for you too, because you could come back to your life and you would be able to see Thor.  I am sure we can find a way to negotiate with Sheriff’s Department to withdraw the arrest order if you where willing to come back with Thor.  It could be so easy.

And of course it would be a win for Thor on so many levels.  He would have his mother, his father, a normal life and a normal childhood.  He would have relatives.  He would have lots of people to love him.  And he would know that his father once took him away because he loved him so much, but he would also know that his father brought him back because in the end his father is a good man, an honest man, a man a little boy can look up to.

Please Andrew, make this a win-win-win.  You are the only one who can do that.  If you are willing, I promise you, on my own soul, I will do everything in my power to negotiate a win for you as well.   It is not too late yet!!!!!!!  It is not too late.  You can reach me on h e g e “at” a l – a l i . o r g     Please, I am begging you think of your son.

I only want the best for Thor, as I am sure you do as well.

Thank you for reading!

Yesssss!! FOX 11 interview with Mia just aired.

I got it on tape and will post it here once I have ituploaded to youtube.  Keep watching this blog!!!

3 weeks has gone by

Does this handsome little boy not deserve a loving mother?

and baby Thor is still missing.  I refuse to be sad about.  If anything, it makes me angry.  Angry, angry. angry!  I am angry on behalf of all the children that has ever been kidnapped away from the people that love them the most.  We cannot allow this to happen anymore!

Let’s start with finding Thor!  Let’s bring this one home!!!

Look at Thor’s face.

Do you see the innocence in his eyes?

Do you see the love in his heart?

Would you want to hurt him?

Of course you would not like to hurt him, but I can tell you one thing for sure; he is hurting.  He is without his mother because his father took him away from at his mother.

Everyday day that goes by that Thor  is not getting help to get home, is another day that he is hurt, sad, confused and crying for his mother.

Please, please, please join our force and HELP!

Wrote the lion post yesterday,

but my daughter got sick and needed my immediate care and attention.  Keep reading this blog though, because I have more posts up my sleeve.  And who knows, maybe more naked chicks.  And if your wife catches you looking at them, you can just tell her you really just want to help a little boy get home to his mom.  What a great excuse?  Do I really have to say it?????    www.thorwang.com

I love you for reading and caring about www.thorwang.com!!!!!!!!!!

Naked women with free beer!!!

Did you find this blog searching for naked women or free beer or both?  No problem, lot’s of nice people like those things….  But before you carry on your search for naked women and free beer take a look at www.thorwang.com and see if you can help.  And since your beer is free, why not donate some money while you are over there.  Mia (a cute young Swedish mother in need) and angel face baby Thor needs your help.  Continue reading please!

If you came to this blog NOT looking for naked women and free beer that is OK too.  Nobody likes to admit looking for naked women and free beer.

And if you REALLY was NOT looking for naked women and free beer.  I understand………….. 

OK, so I decided to hold off on the chocolate for a few minutes.  My last post was so depressing it made me feel worse.  So to end the day on a better note I decided to see if naked women and free beer would get this blog some more attention.

We all know that nudety sells in the real world so now I am testing to see if it “sells” in the blogging world.  It’s an experiement.  I’ll look at my stats tomorrow and the numbers will speak for themselves I guess.  So far I have a about 40 visits to the blog each day (I know, not much) but this might take it to another level.  I will definitely post about it tomorrow.

Oh and if you were looking for naked women and free beer, come back tomorrow….  You’ll never know what you’ll find then…………….

Oh, while your here…. send me a comment!

Only feel like eating chocolate today

I almost can’t stand writing about the fight to bring Thor back today.  I thought Thor would be home hugging his mom by now. But he is not. Things seems to have been slow today for the team, and for a little minute I was trying to convince myself that “No news is good news.” Then I read Mia’s blog for today in Swedish here. It broke my heart.

Mia has gotten angel wings from her friend, that Thor can use to fly home to his mother.  Mia also talks about trying to stay positive and strong.  She is looking forward to hugging Thor for when she gets him back.  And try to make him laugh.

I feel so down on Mia’s behalf today.  I have no idea how she even get’s out of bed each morning.  How do you live without your child in your life.  I don’t know and I surely don’t want to try.

We have to find Thor so Mia does not have to live this nightmare anymore.  God bless them both!

Now I’ll go and eat chocolate.

Scary Facts from findthechildren.com

This is how Thor looked after visitation with his father once

o Did you know that 99% of all abductions in the United States are parental. More children are killed during parental abductions than stranger abductions.
o Parental abductions occur most frequently as relationships end and custody becomes an issue.
o The most prevalent quality in families that experience abduction is domestic violence.
o The motivating factor of the parental abductor is revenge and rarely involves the consideration and welfare of the victim child.

Remember when investigating a parental abduction case that a child may be a great risk with their own parent.

U.S Dept. of Justice reports that every day in the United States 2,100 children are reported missing.

203,900 Children per year in the U.S. are abducted by parents.

THIS IS WHY YOU HAVE TO HELP TO FIND THOR!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

At Office Max a Missing Child is no big deal????

I went to print missing posters yesterday at Office Max and I had the staff there help me.   I was surprised by the fact that no one that helped me reacted to what I was printing!!!!   Not a comment like “oh poor boy”, not a single questions about it.    A missing child is no big deal??????  Anyway I got the manager to give me 10% off for a good cause.

Next time I’ll go to Kinko’s.